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Nancy Calonius's avatar

So encouraging to hear your continued resistance to the BS being threatened towards you!! You are absolutely responding appropriately! Thank you for your knowledge and strength!

Gail Talbot's avatar

I was a Republican until Bush Jr. ran. I feel that we need conservatives to debate issues with liberals. We do not need MAGA. I follow both of you. I have declared myself a Democrat. This discussion was excellent. Thank you both.

Adam Kinzinger's avatar

Thanks! I agree, the old party is gone gone. May come back but right now it’s gone

Emkaykay's avatar

Adam thanks for the share! I’m on an island. Called a Lib and Dem by maga family - literally I’m the only non-maga. My husband is now considered a RINO. I am an Independent. I see where liberals come in here & spout cranky stuff and mean stuff at you. I just don’t get it. We all have to be on the same team now - or same bunker as you said. I’ve lost so many family & friends over this election because the only way the relationships were staying intact was for me to stay silent & let them have their loud maga views, which included letting me know I was wrong all the time. It’s their identities. Fox News made sure of it. I have no faith they will ever snap out of it. I am 1 in 10 who has stood up & lost most relationships.

I also agree that language has gotten more crass and nasty since Trump. He has no respect for the office & no decorum & there is some emulation of that all around us.

Thank you for being an anchor for me just for reassurance & explanation based on facts.

Adam Kinzinger's avatar

Ya the luxury to demand someone agree with you 100 percent is over, and if we keep demanding it we keep losing.

People are complicated and have complicated views

Gordon Hoffman's avatar

Fox News really is a problem. It's really tough having so many misinformed Americans. I think your family will come around when the truth is forced on them - I hope that doesn't take too long.

Emkaykay's avatar

I appreciate it, but I’ve had many a moment when I thought this has to be the thing that can’t be denied. Fox News is a master at making sure that doesn’t happen. However, the people have to be susceptible to that - they play a role too.

Adam Kinzinger's avatar

It’s painful. I’m currently having a bit of a falling out with a close family member.

Having them basically vote for the guy who wants to put your family in jail for doing the right thing is tough to reconcile

Jan's avatar

Adam, with friends like that you don't need enemies. Same thing if they're blood relatives. Yuck - they don't deserve you. To me, it doesn't matter if they're stupid, cowardly, or morally bankrupt - the result is the same.

Emkaykay's avatar

Adam - it’s next level for you because of the threats coming your way. It’s so tough because you feel like you can approach them in love & they will openly listen & consider what you’re saying because you have the personal relationship.

For me, it’s just never how it goes.

Never give up, but also maybe there has to be a break as all of this plays out how we all think it will go.

Mari Wilson's avatar

Let them go, Adam. I know how harsh that sounds, and for you being a public figure it is all the worse.

But I can so relate. The evisceration and excommunication I have experienced from family as well as close friends, has been shocking and very painful. People I have known and loved for most of my life. I knew some were Republicans, and they knew I was a Democrat. We never had any kind of political argument. Devastating how they have turned on me. And the hardest ones are those who were the polar opposite of what they ultimately ended up supporting.

But what I remind myself of is these people have been sucked into a cult. I’m serious, it’s not me being nasty. Smart people can be brainwashed, too. Never imagined it could be half of this country though. Incomprehensible.

Let ‘em go, Adam. That’s what I had to do. Focus on your little unit of 3 and the new family of hopeful, sane Americans you are building. I know I am grateful I found you and this new coalition family. 🙂

And pray those you lost see the error of their ways sooner rather than later.

Mari Wilson's avatar

And of course even more extremist faux news sites have risen—NewsMax & OANN. At least Daddy Murdoch has lost his lawsuit (thus far) to change his family trust to be completely controlled by Lachlan.

Cindy Marshall's avatar

Megan, I hurt for you reading your post! I'm so sorry!

Emkaykay's avatar

Thank you! It’s been heartbreaking. They got nasty & angry when Obama was President & 2016 took it to another level. Maga seems to be their identity. They can’t have a benign conversation about anything! I’ve tried jokes. I’ve asked proactively at holidays to not talk politics. I’ve tried to confront. I’ve tried to redirect like they’re toddlers. These are college educated, middle and upper class folks who function in white collar professions.

I’ve been angry, heartbroken, incredulous and everything in between. I moved in 2023 to get away & made my last trip home to visit this month. My angry brother didn’t care to see me. My sisters did & know how I feel, but still can’t stop the digs on Biden (so tired) & their glee over the win (showing me and discussing the gear they’re buying, spouting the rhetoric from Fox & the mandate). My mom was better than I thought she would be. Everything is on their terms is what I’ve found. I didn’t visit friends because their gloating Nov 6th is why I left Facebook. Praise God he won & other nasty ‘own the libs’ fun stuff.

The island is small and I’m done trying. The sad thing is I don’t think they care. My husband says you value them more than they value you trying to hang on for how things used to be. The maga movement has altered the people I care most about & I feel like I’ve lost them.

D Kaufhold's avatar

MAGAworld has truly destroyed what was the America I remember growing up in 😤

Cindy Marshall's avatar

As an amateur psychologist, please make sure you mourn. You've had a major loss and it can affect your physical health. I know.....it happened to me!

Mari Wilson's avatar

Thank you!! 100%. I don’t know that I have truly done this. Excellent advice, Cindy. ♥️

Tai's avatar

That’s terrible. So sorry for what has happened to your family. It is just unthinkable to have been cast out by friends and family because of the Orange demagogue.

Mari Wilson's avatar

Let them go. If you haven’t already, let them go. They are indoctrinated into a cult and until they get out themselves, there is no way forward. I have felt the same agonizing frustration from their complete unwillingness to even have a conversation. And the hatred and ire and ugliness. It’s toxic and soul sucking. And extraordinarily depressing (for me at least).

It is awful losing those you knew and loved to a cult. It’s the same as losing someone to drug addiction. You try and try to turn them around, away from the danger, but until they are able to do it for themselves, you have to let them go.

I will be happy to embrace you as new family, Megan. We need each other. All of us here need each other. ♥️

Lucy Wiswall's avatar

As a Democrat it pains me to hear Charlie say that some Dems reject the never-Trumpers. Why on earth would they do that! I love both of you, and I love all the never-Trumpers because we Dems need all the help we can get! I think we should build on the center-left-center-right alliance, and form a new party or something. I'm just waiting for our leader to show up. (And who knows, it might be you!) I'm a nobody with no power, but Adam you and Charlie, people listen to you. Keep up what you're doing and eventually we'll have our day in the sun.

DeVonne Conner's avatar

Like you, I support Adam and Charlie. It is also good to hear people who take responsibility for contributing to the proble. There are so many factors involved. I have been a Democrat all of my life, but I support Republicans who promote Democracy, believe in it, and put everything on the line for it. I will never forget when a young Obama said at the Democratic convention so many years ago that this is not a Libral America, this is not a Conservative America, this is the United States of America! That is something that I hold true. Personally, I have always hated labels. I have been a human first, before femal, nationality, born in the south. I went to Catholic school and was kicked out of relition class for not supporting the church's stance on birth control, reproductive rights back in 1970 and 71 as a senior in high school. Thinking comes first, my stance was that the education that they gave us helped us to think, then they tried to shut thinking down.

Dayna Guthrie's avatar

Absolutely, everything you just said!

Jan's avatar

I'm a Democrat who loves the never-Trumpers. I'm moving more to the center-left, I used to be left-left. But then I saw the stupidity....

Sara Frischer's avatar

Adam you and Charlie were upbeat in a hair pin turn. Thank you

Sara Frischer's avatar

Adam, I am at the end of this video. LEFTY here with you. Thank you!

Suebgranny's avatar

Gonna listen to it again . So much info.

Mari Wilson's avatar

Me, too! 💪🏼♥️

Marty Beert's avatar

I wish it were laughable, but it’s not! Maintaining sanity may be boosted by humor. Nevertheless, choas is real. Arrogant is an understatement describing Musk. Would you ask a successful well healed plumber to do cardio surgery? Being able in one area doesn’t translate to another. Brain melt of our society might be true. The soul of America revealed is a very sad reveal. Orwellian revealed in real time. The rise of the third Reich echoed.

Old Man's avatar

Thank you Adam and Charlie- great great discussion. I would really like seeing some Video on Charlie’s substack. I’m totally in the liberal camp but enjoy immensely listening to you point of view.

John Mardula's avatar

Now is the time for all good men and women to come to the aid of their country. Keep up the good fight

Suebgranny's avatar

What a great informative truthful video . You two give me hope for the future of government, this country , and life after the orange mess. Your response to Trump and his idiots is perfect. I did subscribe to Charlie’s Substack . God bless . And Merry Christmas .🎄

Dayna Guthrie's avatar

Such an interesting and intelligent conversation, will be giving it another listen to make sure I didn’t miss anything! I thoroughly agree that we who oppose Trump and Trumpism need to stick together in our fight to maintain the integrity of our country, and ultimately our way of life. We may have nuanced differences in our priorities or preferences, but those differences strengthen us. Thank you!

Lynette Slover's avatar

Love ❤️ the video Adam and Charlie!!! You both did a fantastic job 👍👍👍!!!!

Melanie's avatar

Wonderful watch! I live in WI and enjoyed Charlie’s take on snow. Adam, I watched the Jan 6th inquiry pretty regularly and always appreciated you and Liz Cheney’s no nonsense demeanor. I actually subscribe to you and will be subscribing to Charlie now too. We have to have diversity in ideas to address this weird dystopia that has seemingly over taken the country to get to a sensible consensus. Uphill climb I know! Keep up the good work!

Mari Wilson's avatar

Yes! Feel the exact same way!

Good trouble's avatar

First of all, I love how you, Liz and Mitt courageously stood up to Trump and his loyalists. What he did on January 6th was unforgivable and treasonous to me. The years with Trump have taken me on a journey to find out who I am and what I believe and stand for. I started out as 32 year Republican and transitioned to a Never Trumper, then a Democrat, to a Progressive Democrat. It truly was a hard journey filled with fear and tears, but I happy for the hard lessons I had to learned and find myself confident, courageous and strong. I only want for people to be seen and given charity and mercy to learn and grow into their best selves.

I come from a very conservative, Evangelical family and served in the USAF. Many in my family join the military. I am also a loving mom of 4 kids. Because of Trump's racism, I began to do some serious digging into both parties, tracking and building files of both parties. I realized too many Republican politicians were deeply corrupt and morally bankrupt.

I watched this interview. I have some thoughts since I am very much in the liberal bubbly while still connected to my MAGA family. Yes, I think the Democrats are too easy on Republicans, particularly MAGA. I have read about 28 books this year, including yours and Liz Cheney 's books. Propaganda ruined conservatives. I read Peter Strzok book Compromised too. Putin and Trump infiltrated religious, military, and other groups by sending crazy conspiracy theories through social media. They effectively brainwashed millions of people by constantly employing tried and tested cult tactics. I read Cult of Trump also. It's painful to see how this has changed my parents and sister. My family only watched FOX and TBN everyday. It played on the TV day and night in all rooms. Now they love Putin for God's sake!

I'm in Seattle, Washington now. The Democrats here that are my age (50s)are educated and well-informed. I have a women's group of friends and we talk politics. I can see why MAGA attacked affirmative action, reproductive rights, books and public education. We definitely see how the oligarchs are swaying public opinion by using their money to influence politicians, social media, and elections and how they are affecting and rigging elections with various voter suppression tactics.

I started following you because I need to believe their are still decent Republicans out there. I faced hostility for wanting to follow Christ by helping the poor, widows, strangers, etc. By wanting to do this I was labeled a socialist, communist, liberal, and woke. My response was " I just thought I was being a Christian."

I want to set the record straight. Never Trump Republicans, like myself, are accepted on the left. We just have to find eachother. This is why I joined. We need to communicate what we've learned, share our stories and fight together against facist tyranny. Fascism is the real boogeyman around the v world today and MAGA is just that in our country.

I apologize for the length. I wish you the best, Adam!

Cindy Marshall's avatar

Thanks for your post which exemplifies why you are Good Trouble!! Your journey was very powerful🙏and thank you for your service 🇺🇸

Mari Wilson's avatar

Beautifully said GT! Love this. Love you. Love that there are sane and balanced people still here. The extremisms (on both sides) are not the majority of the citizenry. They’re just the loudest!

Joannie Reeves's avatar

Hearing ya all talk about loosing friends I lost friends that I have known for 50 years, I am ok with it I could not in good conscience follow a cult. None of my close family fell for it either so I got lucky. Why didn’t I fall for it well I place credit to my Grandad.

My grandfather was an interest man he was a Goldwater Republican with the heart of a liberal. He was what people would call a Hill Billy and lived off the land, Little House on the Prairie. He had 6 grade education but when it came to politics and history he never met a book he had not read so it would be a mistake to underestimate him. He taught me to look at the facts in the issues and then make my choice as to who to vote for. So when I see or hear something just sounds clicks or off I will take a minute and find the facts that is there or well was that video slowed down for effect, or was words cut out or added to a tape. And usually I am right just by find the facts.

I think just sticking to facts will help bring some of this around to the other side. But also I think that people are going to have to feel some pain before they realize that the cult of Fox News is a part of their pain. The other day I turned on Fox and Friends and Ducey was say that Trump was just kidding, that he would never do what he was saying on the trail. Well now I guess we will find out.

Linn's avatar

Your grandfather sounds like a very wise man.

Tracey Elisabeth's avatar

What a wonderful video! Liberal Dem here. I love the never Trumpers. And I have learned so much from them (you).

Harriet Mazer's avatar

You are not alone!!

Once I began reading The Bulwark I was so surprised how easy it was to find common ground with conservative Republicans after 60 years of mistrust and dislike! I believe the 20 foot trench is a valid argument to coalesce against the common peril that the trump era has created. The present danger demands our cooperation with folks in other bubbles!